Being an introvert is not the same as being shy!
Introversion is a characteristic; being shy is not. It’s possible to raise introverts who are confident, self-assured leaders.
The world may not always celebrate introversion – but you can!
Society tends to reward extroversion, and to celebrate it as the key to success – but that’s simply not the case. Introverts are thoughtful, sensitive and often creative people with a rich inner life and a keen sense of self. Some of the world’s greatest thinkers and doers are introverts. Often introverts make – and form – the very best friendships. Their relationships tend to be deep and meaningful.
An introverted child will need time to recharge after busy or high energy events
Extroverts find social situations invigorating. Introverts can cope with them just as easily – but may find them exhausting, and need time to recharge afterwards. As the parent of an introvert, it’s important to value your child’s alone time, and encourage them to see the value in it, too. Relaxation, quiet periods, introspection – these are important to your child’s emotional well-being and equilibrium. Learning to be aware of one’s emotional needs can take time. This is a skill that you, as a parent, can help your child to develop.
Introverts are capable of anything!
Your child is just as likely to excel in leadership as their extroverted friends. Introverts can be public figures, debaters, speakers, performers and the life and soul of a party. Initial fears may temporarily debilitate (after all, introverts can think things through a little too much!). However, your child will be capable of anything, as long as they accept the importance of cultivating the right balance in their life (refer back to No. 3).
Allow your child the time they need to grow
Because your introvert is more likely to second guess themselves, and because the sight of others leaping in can be daunting, your child may take a little longer to spread their wings. New situations may be initially overwhelming. This is where you, as parent, must persevere. Help your child to recognise that the ‘look before you leap’ approach can be a positive one, and that it’s okay to take time to assess new environments. A six year old who holds back and observes may quite easily become a confident twelve-year-old with the self awareness and confidence to succeed.
Don’t be afraid to stand up for your child
When your child’s teacher equates introversion with social awkwardness, anxiety or shyness, don’t be afraid to correct them. Introversion is often misunderstood. Teach your child that while the qualities of an introverted personality may sometimes go unrecognised, they are often some of the most important character traits a person can have.
Julie
Centauriarts.com